Tenderly Drowsy

mrhatton:

And so my friends, whilst I would love to tell you I am sat here naked, but for a cockring as I write, I am unfortunately in the office on a day before a public holiday when half of my colleagues can’t be bothered to turn up for work.

However as today is destined to be rather quiet, I have some time to delve into something which Cher asked me to give some thought, which is…what is the appeal of kink/BDSM?

And immediately my reaction is that frankly the way that Cher and I live does not in any way feel particularly kinky. It is simply the way we are, in fact if anything I would say that the relationship I have with Cher is the most authentic relationship I have ever been able to have, which is down to the honesty we have with each other. Both of us are able to be honest about our needs, desires, and fantasies.

Sometimes we make fantasy into reality and we can do so in the context of it both being about us first. Cher feels secure and more loved than she has ever felt before, and me? Well, I get to be adored.

We don’t have too much call for rules, although we do have them and a degree of structure, and they are important in that they give us both grounding and help to keep us both mindful of our relationship. But perhaps it is the mindfulness that is the key, because it means that we are both in the moment when we are with each other, and whilst there are still all those other inconveniences of life that we have to deal with, the most prominent thing for us both is always our relationship.

To see her submit and want to fulfil your every desire, take whatever is given to her, to see her conquer herself and hunger for more and to do it all to please you, can there be anything better? To know that you are loved beyond measure, worshipped, adored, isn’t that everyone’s fantasy?

When you see her gagging on your cock and feel her saliva running down your shaft and onto your balls, when you are so deep inside her cunt that she is crying out in pain but still craving more, when you see her skin flush and feel her shake in your arms as she gives herself over completely to orgasm, gives herself completely over to you, well, then you know that you don’t have to deal with fantasy anymore.

She is yours completely. There is no greater love you could hope to recieve.

And in turn she is your muse and your inspiration, and you are better for her devotion and strive to be worthy of such love with every day.